Kavanaugh Hearings, C-SPAN Callers, Personal Trauma
The public discourse surrounding the Brett Kavanaugh Supreme Court confirmation hearings is criticized for being destructive to victims of past abuse. A specific C-SPAN caller from Valley Park, Missouri, describes how the testimony of Christine Blasey Ford triggered suppressed memories of her own childhood assault. There is a noted lack of sensitivity and "safety nets," such as hotline referrals, for the public during these high-profile broadcasts of sensitive topics.
brett kavanaugh· c-span· sexual assault· trauma· valley park missouri· hotlines
00:00 I'll take the opium and warm orange juice, please. Another pre-Zephyr show everybody we're on the money. We're here. No, it's three in a row now three three three three in a row three in a row.
00:44 Oh man. I cry for humanity. What is this? Oh, this is what's going on. Oh, the Kavanaugh stuff. Oh, I cry for humanity. No one knows how destructive this really has been. It's very, very, very, very destructive. Probably. Yeah, I mean, beyond what people read. No one has even thought for two seconds about what this kind of conversation does to people. I mean, there were people on C-SPAN Reliving abuse. I mean there was people everywhere were reliving abuse this I'm not kidding This was really I thought it was very irresponsible What took place here? Did you hear this woman on C-SPAN? I was watching C-SPAN I watched I OD'd on C-SPAN and in one of the recesses they took some callers and listen to this, it was a heart-wrenching. And a Valley Park, Missouri Democrats line
01:43 Yes, I'm a 76 year old woman who was sexually molested in the second grade. This brings back so much pain. I thought I was over it, but it's not. You will never forget it. You get confused and you don't understand it, but you never forget. what happened to you. Without my family, I would never have been able to go through this. And now I'm 76 years old and I thought I was over it until I heard that it happened to someone else. And it is just, it is such a shame. I was in the second grade.
02:20 Listen to this a-hole. Hey Brenda, how old were you at the time? Tell me what happened. This is C-SPAN. Good catch. Tell me what happened. And it was a seventh grader at my school and you know on rainy days they have you march around the school because back then because they couldn't let you out and I would see him and I would get so upset and get So upset I've had a weight problem my whole life because I was so afraid that someone was going to hurt me And we've talked about this you know people who have severe weight problems often comes from abuse and they want to be seen as being unattractive as possible so no one will mess with them and all this stuff is coming up because of what's going on and this Jamoke here sitting there. Hey, how old were ya?
03:03 I mean when I was growing up and they had sensitive topics on the radio, of course this was Dutch national government run radio, I remember they would always say periodically throughout any program where there's something that might affect you, they would say we have people standing by if you want to talk to somebody you can talk off-air, you know if you want you can give you a referral to someone else. No, no, no, no, just how old were you? What happened? And I'm married, I have a wonderful family, I have a wonderful husband and a child and great-great-grandchildren and grandchildren and I thought I was over this and I have not brought this up for years until I heard this testimony and it is just breaking my heart. Brenda, thank you. Thank you very much for sharing your story.
03:49 Now there's some abuse right there. Thanks for sharing your story. Great. Now you're lost. Next. Yes. Give me a Republican sob story. Um, but I do mean that, I mean, the lack of sensitivity, I think is a severe lack of saying would be if I, you know, it's one of those things because it's C-SPAN. They're usually used to, they're used to crank calls, but they're not used to that. And I think the guy just choked. Yeah. Yeah, but but my point is I'm not gonna fault him the way you just did because I think he just choked Okay, you give me this face. This is not where you know the big boys that top drawer stuff I don't know if the c-span got some ratings. I'll tell you
04:34 But the overall point has got to be made is that the cavalierness with which people are speaking about this, particularly politicians, pundits, and other giant heads on television, is really without any regard. There's just no thought went into it. Zero. Which is par for the course, but I think it used to be different. Like, well, this could... People think about this stuff. At least give me a hotline number or a place to call if I have something to say. I think you're right about that little bit there you might be right about. It's like, why are we doing this without having some, you know, a safety net? Yeah. There's not a single... So the whole thing is a giant joke. Yeah, it is. I would wager to say there's not a single woman who has not thought about some event in her history during this
05:32 shit show that's been going on. You were not just women but you were talking about the guy with the darts in your... That's pretty gross. I've been groped by men. I've been sexually assaulted by men. Tell us more. How old were you? 716 you didn't do it right. How old tell us how old you were it was a fake intention That happens in Amsterdam, you know like I was a I guess I was a Twinkie looking guy and some guy come up like hey Like yeah, yeah, I got off of me which I have another question Do mom's no longer?
06:21 Teach their daughters the old knee to the groin trick I haven't heard this come up in the conversation once and I remember my mom very clearly telling my sisters But also me if there's anyone if anyone ever is doing anything you need them right in the groin as hard as you can do is yes as hard as you can yeah, it's do with enthusiasm like you mean it and Is that not taught anymore? I just wonder. I don't know. Do the millennial do that? I never thought about it, but it should be taught. It's a very good methodology for, you know, unless the guy's wearing a catcher's baseball cup. Yeah. Well, but I remember my mom had toothache. She had that. You just need a guy as hard as you can in the groin. Apparently works for women as well.
07:06 And she also had this really, she had a charm bracelet and it always fascinated me. And while I was thinking of this yesterday that came to me, I wrote it down. She had this little charm and like it was probably about, I'd say half an inch by half an inch square. And it was a little silver box with a lid and in it was mechanically folded into this very small box a $10 bill, which you know back in the 70s, wow, a $10 bill was, you know, it was like a hundred bucks or more in today's money. And that was, you know, it's like, yes I have this charm and of course I don't need it anymore but I always had this charm bracelet on when I went out as if I ever needed to get a taxi back I could take care of myself and I had my own money in my charm bracelet and I would need the guy in the groin if he got fresh with me. None of that is discussed anymore. I don't know, maybe I'm wrong I just don't hear it, you know, because maybe that's part of the new
